Look to yourself for change
Preventing the big "D" It is not uncommon to hear that a friend, family member, or a co-worker is going through a divorce. What most people do not realize is that divorce is an individual problem. It cannot be generalized. In some cases, divorce is not solution, because one or both spouses feel the marriage can be saved from divorce. Divorce may be right for one person and wrong for another. Not all marriages can be saved from the big "D" word, but when a Husband and Wife agree to putting lots of time and effort into fixing the problems, divorce can be avoided. The key thing to remember is, divorce takes place first in the mind; the legal proceedings follow after. If you and your Spouse have a negative attitude about your marriage and toward each other, then your marriage will not work. When you are silently resenting your Spouse and have hostility toward them, you are being unfaithful. You may be asking yourself, "How is having negative