The Adorned Wife

Staying Connected My Husband and I are very private people, especially whenever it comes to our marriage, However, I have decided to share with everyone what I have recently been going through. For the past couple of weeks, I have felt that my Husband and I have both had an emotional wall up, towards each other. I know that our love for each other is very strong and that we have the favor of God on our marriage, so I did not have any doubts about our marriage. I just wanted to figure out why I was feeling as if my marriage had became disconnected. I knew that I had to find a solution to the problem and fast. After a lot of prayers and communicating with each other, I figured out what the problem was! Everyone has three needs in life: Love, Security and Meaning. Love - To know that your Spouse is unconditionally committed to your best interest "My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you" (John 15:12). Meaning -To know that our lives h...

All of us have the occasional argument with our Spouse. I do not know about you, but I do not like to argue with anyone. I especially dislike arguing with my Husband, because most of the time we have a tendency to yell or say things that we do not mean to say to one another. Eventually, after we have both calmed down we do apologize for anything that we may have said or did during the argument that could have caused the other one any hurt feelings.  In a perfect world there would not be any arguing with our Spouse, but we all know that this world is not perfect. Even small disagreements can became an issue if not handled properly. When I refer to disagreements, it can be getting upset over your Spouse showing more attention to video games. You may feel that lately, your Spouse is working too many hours, your Spouse may not be helping around the house, your Spouse may not have shown you enough attention, and the list goes on. So how can you attempt to stop the arguments tha...