The Adorned Wife

ABC’ S of Successful Marriage A-Adore your spouse B-Be able to be yourself around them C-Care for one another D-Delight in one another’s presence E-Encourage your spouse to do better on daily basis F-Forgive easily G-Give all of yourself H-Help each other learn ways to become closer to God I-Inspire each other J-Joke around K-Kiss as often as possible L-Love unconditionally M-Make them feel special N-Nurture their needs O-Overcome fears and trust issues P-Practice patience always Q-Quality alone time S-Say “I love you” many times throughout the day T-Tenderly touch them as much as possible U-Understand that they are not perfect V-Value everything about them W-Walk with God and put him first in your marriage X-Xmas should always be spent celebrating the birth of Jesus Y-Yearn for them always Z-zzzz in your spouse’s arms The Adorned Wife : Stephanie Boyette

Whenever your Spouse or anyone is negative toward you, do not allow their pessimistic attitude to take your joy away. Instead, repay them with kindness by building them up with loving and kind words. Ephesians 4:32 states, We are to be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as Christ God forgave you". We are supposed to be imitating God like behavior, which means having an optimistic attitude and showing love toward all of our brother and sisters in Christ. Speak kind words, think positive thoughts and show love towards everyone. Always live your life with joy in your heart! Article written by: Stephanie Boyette

 Have you ever felt like you did not know which direction your life was heading in? I feel that way, whenever I have too many things planned for the day. It never seems that there is enough time to complete the things that I have on my to-do list. I consider myself very detailed, so I like knowing how and when things are going to happen.  There is only 24 hours in a day, which means that I have to sort through the most important ones on the list. My priorities are usually not what they should be, because I should always make it my first priority to spend good, quality time with God. The Lord always has time for us and gives us his undivided attention, which means that we should do the same for him. God has blessed us with days on this earth, the least we can do is to make it a priority to spend time with him and that means putting him first on your to-do list. Putting God first in your daily list of things to do, will show the Lord that you are taking steps to strengthen ...

Today, “till death do we part” does not mean what it says to some people.  Today, divorce has taken over our society. We now see prenuptial agreements and couples maintaining separate bank accounts (some spouses will even withhold the other from having access to the account).  Marriage is about sharing your lives and committing yourselves to being together. When you allow separation of your lives emotionally and financially the enemy can tear down the marriage. God designed marriage as the joining together of one flesh, by sharing equally in all aspects of our lives and committing ourselves to being together. The idea of separation in these financial and personal aspects is a mentality of preparing for divorce, before it even happens. Being married requires self-sacrifice and laying down your personal desires. You are supposed to love your spouse, just as The Lord loves us.  What are some  ways that you can save your marriage from failure ?   1. Pray ...

                    ~Forgiveness~  °When you forgive others, God will bring you blessings °You can move forward and forget, when you forgive °When you forgive, other's will begin to forgive you easier °You will begin to worship God with your whole heart, when  you show forgiveness °Forgiveness will show that you are kind hearted °Be more like Christ; Forgive easily °When you forgive you will have peace and not become bitter. Article Published By: Luther and Stephanie  Boyette

Faithfulness:                       Stay faithful to your spouse. Cheating can be defined as: fantasying about the opposite sex, sharing intimate and personal details of your life with the opposite sex, and being physically intimate with the opposite sex. ( Hebrews 13:4) Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Forgiveness:                        Forgive your spouse, just as Jesus has forgiven you for your sins. Without forgiveness, you will never get past your problems . ( Mark 11:25, 26) And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have aught against any; that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses. But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive you...